Raising expectations

The most important thing is this:

That one would grow up as a good person.
That one would become obedient member of society.
That one would become competent at what one does.
That one would become a skillful professional.
That one would thrive in an over-competitive world.
That one would use other people's resources to become bigger than oneself.
That one would stand out from the crowd.
That one would avoid crowds altogether.
That one would find one's mission and excel at it.
That one would become a remarkable individual desiring to make a difference in the world.

Which ones would you choose? Whom would you like to work/live with? Which ones would you like the policy of your country to be?