When somebody around you starts spreading gossips about a person or an event, the most constructive way to handle them is to talk about ideas behind the object of the gossip.
This can be done by asking "why" relentlessly.
Why are our neighbors fighting?
Why is he so successful?
Why doesn't she trust me?
This way it's no longer a gossip - it's a debate of ideas, a culture - food for the brain.
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Download paper manuals and pedals, print them out, cut the white spaces, tape the sheets together and you'll be ready to practice anywhere where is a desk and floor. Make sure you have a higher chair.