But if you really want to stop being a victim of your situation, you have to change the story you tell yourself about your situation.
It's very simple (but not easy). Write down these words and repeat them at the beginning of your every day:
"I'm the happiest person on the planet because I have a mind full of generous ideas which come to me every hour. I can't wait to start realizing the next one."
The hard part is this - you have to really want to stop being a victim.
Say it even if it's not the case. Especially if it's not the case.
PS Video from my lecture-recital "Before Giving Up: Hooked By the Opportunity of Making Change Happen" (organ improvisations and readings from this blog in Lithuanian which took place last Saturday at Vilnius University St. John's church).